This post is a bit unusual for me. This is directed solely to my fellow #professionalspeakers and to those who desire to speak professionally.
It’s time for me to respectfully, but strongly, dispute some advice that is being shared by some that, if taken on its face, could be hugely detrimental to both your career personally and to the speaking business as a whole.
When asked to describe what it takes to become successful, Steve Martin said, “Market like crazy and do whatever it takes to get hired as a performer!”
No…wait. He did not say anything like that at all.
Instead, he said, “Become so good at what you do that you become impossible to ignore.”
Here’s the problem — Martin’s approach is significantly more difficult to undertake. It also leaves you less of a prospect for those who seek to sell you services that market your business, run your social media, write and publish a book, and any of the other myriad of pitches that anyone who calls themselves a speaker will encounter.
If Mercedes-Benz said, “Our job is to sell the car, not make a great car,” where do you think their reputation and profitability would be as compared to the esteem they have in the marketplace?
If Steve Jobs had stated, “Apple’s job is to sell the iPhone, not deliver a remarkable device,” we might still be carrying BlackBerrys. Instead, he drove his team to develop products that were “insanely great.”
Let me be clear: if you call yourself a professional speaker, your primary job is to serve your client by delivering a distinctive, amazing presentation.
You book the speech because you are so great on the platform that you become impossible to ignore as a speaker, thereby creating demand for your programs. If you think your primary job is to book the speech, your focus is on the wrong target — and can likely derail your long-term prospects for a successful career.
Look, I realize there will be many who will dispute my position here — or say this is the way it used to be but doesn’t apply to today’s meetings marketplace. All I ask you to consider are these two questions:
If you purchased a supremely marketed product or service that failed to deliver as promised, would you buy more of it and advocate it in the marketplace? Or would you never buy it again and tell others of your disappointment?
If someone tells you that booking the speech is your main job instead of delivering the presentation, is there the potential for a hidden agenda? Are they hoping to sell you a service that promotes your speaking without helping you improve your content and delivery?
Your job is to craft and deliver a presentation so compelling to the client and the audience that their loyalty becomes assured. I had someone tell me that my success as a speaker could be measured in the thousands of paid presentations that I’ve delivered. I gently disagreed. I think my success should be measured by how many terrific clients and meeting professionals have had me return and speak for their groups on multiple occasions.
A speaker does not work for one firm over 100 times, as I have for Merrill Lynch, because I thought my job was to book the gig.
You aren’t a keynote for seven consecutive years, as I am for Chrysler, because of marketing.
You don’t sign six-figure retainers, as we have with terrific partners like Volkswagen Australia, Juniper, and SkinCure Oncology, and more, because I hired a social media team.
(Please excuse this previous paragraph — I know it sounds braggadocios, and I apologize for that. It’s important to me, however, that you know I’m presenting my opinion from experience and evidence.)
There’s only one aspect that the “A-list” of professional speakers have in unison. In today’s meetings marketplace, thank goodness, there’s more diversity in speakers and in thought than ever before. But there is still this common denominator: the top speakers are all AMAZING on the platform.
Here’s a bit of tough love that we all need to hear in this profession: If you are not getting booked — and especially if you aren’t getting booked to return or through word-of-mouth recommendations — your problem is NOT your marketing.
the impact of individual actions on customer experiences
the importance of adapting to life’s changes
While these subjects may seem unrelated at first glance, I believe they both highlight the crucial role that people play in our lives.
Posts about lousy customer service and ridiculously horrid experiences get more clicks and traction, however, I believe it is also critical to make the effort to also note when something goes right. My personal experience has been that when something falls apart – like my recent stay at the Hampton Inn West in Amarillo – it’s because leadership failed in its job to model the customer approaches they want to see from their team. Many times, though, when something is great, it’s because individual team members take it upon themselves to deliver for their customers.
That was the case with Carson, the front desk clerk at the Hampton Inn in Rolla, Missouri, the very next night of our trip.
With a big smile and warm manner, this young man sincerely welcomed us to the property. He showed me where the luggage carts were and helped ensure that we got to our room promptly and easily. He made certain we had a couple of bottles of water – our choice: room temperature or chilled – and told us our dogs were extremely cute. (A sure-fire way to score points with us!) And he directed us to precisely the right place to park both my car and the SUV with the U-Haul trailer that Tammy was driving. (Obviously a major improvement over the previous evening!)
After we got settled in our room, we noticed the toilet was running. We couldn’t get it to stop – so I called the front desk. Carson not only answered promptly, he was in our room in mere moments to fix the toilet! He even apologized to us that because his shift was ending, he would not see us as we checked out the next morning. He wanted to wish us safe travels and hoped we would return to this Hampton Inn again in the future.
Here’s the point: our previous night in Amarillo was horrendous. This night in Rolla, Missouri, was terrific. Same hotel chain. Same décor. Same room, same mattress, same everything.
The difference was Carson.
Carson’s exceptional service not only made our stay in Rolla pleasant but also restored our faith in the Hampton Inn chain after the disappointing experience we had in Amarillo the previous night.
Your job is to:
create more Carsons through your leadership and training for your team; and,
model the behavior for your team that will help them become a group of Carsons
It’s been said by every writer and speaker on CX, “Your people make the difference.” It’s a cliché because it’s true.
Carson’s impact on our hotel experience serves as a reminder of how the people in our lives can make all the difference, which brings me to the second topic I’d like to discuss: changes in life.
This next point is a strange segment to share because I’ve lived for many years in Vegas and have loved my time there. However, as family members are getting older and some are facing health challenges, Tammy and I have decided it’s right for us to move back to Indiana for a year or so. In the past year, Tam has lost three aunts, and I lost the last member of my late Dad’s family of twelve siblings. (Thankfully, my Mom is still doing well.)
The driving trip I discussed in the last couple of messages was because we are relocating to Fort Wayne for the next twelve months or so. My business will still be officially based in Las Vegas, and we plan to return to the West in the future, but the time is right for us to be Hoosiers who are based in Indiana again for a little while.
The two seemingly disparate topics discussed in this post – the impact of individual actions on customer experiences and the importance of adapting to life’s changes – are more interconnected than they may initially appear.
Just as Carson’s personal dedication to providing excellent service transformed a routine hotel stay into a memorable experience, the people in our lives have the power to make even the most challenging transitions more manageable and meaningful. By focusing on cultivating these connections and striving to be the “Carson” in someone else’s story, we can navigate life’s ups and downs with grace, resilience, and a greater appreciation for the people who make the journey worthwhile.
Sometimes life throws a curve or two – and it is in these times that we should be reminded of the importance of the people in our lives…and how they are more impactful than the places where we may be residing.
And while Fort Wayne and Las Vegas aren’t too much alike (to say the least), and my travel will be different from the small airport here instead of the huge one in Sin City, it’s an adventure.
I just wanted you to know – and we both appreciate the love and support we receive from our friends, family, and our clients who have become our friends and like a family. Thank you.
Tammy and I were each driving our cars cross-country this week from Las Vegas to Fort Wayne, Indiana. I was in my car, and she was driving our SUV while pulling a small U-Haul trailer. Our older dog, Lucy, was in the car with me, and our puppy, Chloe, was Tam’s traveling companion. After a long day crossing I-40, we pulled off in Amarillo, Texas, to use some Hilton Honors points and stay at the Hampton Inn West just off the highway.
As it was difficult in the busy parking lot to find a space big enough for the SUV and trailer, the front desk clerk said that since I was a Diamond-level Hilton Honors guest, we could pull the combination into the two spots reserved for Diamonds on the side of the building. We dragged our luggage from both vehicles. Tam went to park her SUV and trailer as directed. I loaded our baggage on a cart, threw it into our room, and then returned to help her get both dogs out for a potty break, after which I’d park my car as she headed up to our hotel room.
I opened the door to the room, quickly got the luggage inside, and hurriedly returned to help my wife. The dogs finished their business, and Tammy headed to our room with them as I circled the lot, looking for a place to park my car.
As I re-entered the Hampton Inn, Tammy texted me a picture as she was calling me. Opening the closet, she found men’s dirty underwear and socks. I noted the TV was on when I opened the door to pitch the luggage in. I immediately became afraid that a person was still occupying the room and would return to find someone he would perceive as an intruder. I told her to exit the room immediately and wait for me to get up there to get our luggage.
As I told the front desk clerk what had happened, she said it “was impossible.” I asked her why I would make something like that up. Then I showed her the picture. She told me, “If your wife entered the room with those dogs, my manager says I can’t give you another room.”
I was incredulous. Would she even imagine we would stay in a room that had obviously not been properly cleaned—and perhaps had not been vacated? I might not have been as kind as I was previously, but I told her in no uncertain terms that we were getting another room. She made me wait as she texted her manager, who, after several minutes of leadership contemplation, told her to give us a different room.
I get Tammy and the dogs in the new room, go back up, reload the luggage, and move it down two floors to our new location.
Finally, at about 11 PM, we drift off to sleep. Until 1 AM when the phone in our room rings.
This time, the overnight clerk at the front desk ordered that I must move our SUV and trailer immediately or risk being towed away. I informed her that I parked where the last desk clerk told me to — and a bit coldly asked why she would call a guest at 1 AM anyway.
“My manager has made it clear that only Diamonds can park their cars in those spots.” I responded that I was a Diamond. “Yes, but you also parked a trailer in the other spot, and that’s against what my manager told me was permissible. If it’s not moved, it will be towed.”
So, I get up, get dressed, and head out into about 35 degrees and spitting snowfall. I asked the clerk to show me where to park so I wouldn’t be towed. She points to an empty space in another hotel’s parking lot. “You can park there—they don’t mind.”
“How will I know,” I ask, “that THEY won’t have me towed because I’m not a guest there?”
“They won’t care. It’s fine.”
Tired and upset, I park the SUV and trailer where she points — and move my car into one of the Diamond spots. I return to the room a little after 1:30 AM, adrenaline pumping because I’m so mad and frustrated. It takes me at least 90 more minutes to finally fall asleep.
As we check out about three hours later — exhausted and with a day’s drive ahead — the same overnight clerk tells me that three other cars — two with trailers — were towed away after I moved mine. (Which was, fortunately, just fine where I had parked it in the other hotel’s lot.) She presented the bill for the night at the hotel. (Even though we were using points for the stay, we were charged $95 for having two dogs with us.) I told her I wanted to have a few words with the manager.
She said, “After I told the manager about all the upset guests from the towing and everything, he told me he was sick and wouldn’t be in this morning.”
As we drove away, I realized that even though I was angry with those two clerks for obviously egregious behavior towards customers, the blame should rest on the missing manager. Both clerks were more concerned with upsetting the manager than their customers. Apparently, they were afraid of managerial reprisals for any deviance from “the policy” — even if their efforts were to ensure that the guests at the property were taken care of in the manner that the hotel promised in their marketing and branding efforts.
How about you and your team?
Would they be afraid that making it easier for the customer (like where a guest can park or moving someone from a dirty room) isn’t the priority and would cause them to be on the receiving end of managerial reprimands?
Have you trained them on the Ultimate Customer Experience®?
These desk clerks knew one thing: there would be hell to pay if they did something outside the lines of precisely what their manager had told them.
Keeping guests in a dirty room or towing their cars away in a strange city was acceptable as long as it fits within what the manager had outlined.
That’s bad management. Of course, you already knew that by how the manager hung his employees out to dry by calling in sick after being told there were upset customers wanting his attention.
One final thing: I called the Hilton “Customer Cares” line the following day while driving to tell them about my horrible experience. A woman I could barely understand — as her English obviously was not yet fluent — told me she could put my points back into my account.
I replied that I also wanted a refund of the $95 because I didn’t want that property to have a cent of my money — and that they had failed on the aspect that’s the bare minimum of what a hotel guest has a right to expect: a decent night’s sleep.
She told me that was beyond what her manager would let her do, and she’d have to escalate my case. I said I would like to speak to a supervisor. She replied that it was impossible — just check my account in 48 hours, and I would know what they had decided.
I hung up and just shook my head as I proceeded down the Interstate. If that’s how they treat their best customers as a Diamond Hilton Honors member — how do they take care of (or not) their occasional guests?
And why should I choose a Hilton brand in the future as opposed to another? (They might save the $95 — and lose thousands in future business. We will see…)
What happened to me isn’t important to your business, but the question about how your employees treat your customers is.
In today’s hyper-competitive business landscape, an organization’s success hinges on its ability to stand out from the crowd.
Therefore, as a leader, it is not enough for you to simply manage your team and ensure smooth operations. To truly excel, you must inspire and empower your team to create distinction in every aspect of their work.
This foundational perspective on leadership is crucial for driving organizational success and separating your company from the competition. I fervently believe—and this is supported by my experience and research—that creating distinction is the key to organizational success, profitability, and creating the kind of culture that inspires the retention of your best customers and employees.
At the core of this leadership approach is the belief that distinction is not just a top-level concern but rather a responsibility that should be embraced by every department and individual within the organization. Leaders must effectively communicate this vision and provide their teams with the tools, resources, and support they need to innovate and deliver exceptional results.
One of my favorite examples is the Fairmont Scottsdale Princess, a renowned resort that has successfully created distinction in a crowded market. Rather than focusing solely on creating a distinctive resort as a whole, the leadership team with CEO Jack Miller broke down the goal into meaningful elements, such as crafting a distinctive check-in experience and providing distinctive housekeeping services. By empowering each department to contribute to the overall goal of distinction and the Ultimate Customer Experience ®, the resort was able to create a truly memorable and differentiated experience for its guests that has made it the most profitable of all Fairmont properties.
As a leader, it is essential for you to foster a culture of continuous learning and improvement within your organization. Encourage your team members to seek out new ideas, best practices, and innovations that can help set your company apart. Provide opportunities for professional development, cross-functional collaboration, and creative problem-solving. By investing in your team’s growth and development, you not only enhance their individual capabilities but also strengthen the organization’s ability to create distinction.
Moreover, leaders must lead by example and demonstrate a commitment to distinction in their own work. This means consistently pushing boundaries, challenging the status quo, and seeking out new and better ways of doing things. By embodying the values of innovation, excellence, and differentiation, leaders can inspire their teams to follow suit and contribute to the organization’s success.
The pursuit of distinction should be a top priority for any leader looking to drive organizational success in today’s competitive landscape.
By inspiring and empowering your team to create distinction in every aspect of their work, you can set your organization apart from the competition and achieve long-term success.
Remember, distinction is not just a goal but a mindset that should be embraced by every member of your organization, from the front lines to the executive suite. You can lead your team to create distinction!
We are in an era where customer experience (CX) is the battleground in every industry. There’s no business I’ve encountered in my years of working with organizations around the world that had zero concern for repeat and referral business. We all desire customers who come back for more and who tell their colleagues and friends about us. Yet, few organizations create the distinction necessary between themselves and the competition to avoid the pitfalls of the “sea of sameness” where most businesses find themselves adrift.
I’ve learned that a crucial piece often remains overlooked – the direct correlation between the experience of employees (EX) and that of customers.
This oversight is not just a minor gap; it’s a chasm that can significantly affect an organization’s bottom line and brand reputation.
A study by the Harvard Business Review highlighted that companies excelling in customer experience have 1.5 times more engaged employees than less customer-focused companies.
Yet, despite such compelling evidence, the responsibility for CX and EX often lies in siloed departments, with little collaboration or understanding between the two. Particularly concerning is the role of the Chief Customer Officer, who, in many organizations, lacks authority over or sometimes even a direct connection to the very employees delivering the experience to customers.
The Symbiotic Relationship of CX and EX
To grasp the essence of this connection, consider the upcoming Olympics and a relay race. Just as the success of the gold medal team depends not only on the individual speed of the runners but also on their ability to seamlessly pass the baton, your journey of delivering exceptional customer service is a team effort that hinges on the internal support and motivation of the workforce.
Drawing from the insights in my recent book, The Ultimate Customer Experience®, one critical aspect of enhancing both CX and EX is to “Connect With Emotion.” Employees who feel valued, heard, and engaged are more likely to extend those positive emotions toward customers, creating a ripple effect that enhances every interaction.
Gallup’s State of the Global Workplace report supports this, showing that businesses with highly engaged teams show a 21% increase in profitability, directly linking employee well-being with superior customer service.
From Insight to Action
So, how can your business put this understanding into practice? The first step is for leaders to recognize and act upon the interdependence of CX and EX. Creating a culture that prioritizes employee engagement and satisfaction as the foundation for customer service excellence is no longer optional; it’s imperative.
Leaders should strive to create an environment where feedback loops exist not just externally with customers but internally with employees. This approach ensures that those on the front lines who understand customer needs most intimately are heard, valued, and empowered to make a difference.
Real-world Success Stories
Consider the case of a well-known retail giant that revamped its approach to employee engagement. By implementing regular feedback mechanisms, recognition programs, and clear paths for career advancement, they saw a dramatic uptick in employee satisfaction. This internal transformation led to more personalized and proactive customer service, reflected in their rising customer satisfaction scores and, subsequently, their bottom line.
Another example is a leading tech company that integrated its customer support teams with product development groups. This cross-functional integration allowed for direct communication and rapid iteration based on customer feedback, delivered by engaged employees who felt directly involved in the company’s success. The result was not only innovative product enhancements but also customers who felt heard and valued, fostering loyalty and advocacy.
Reflection and Call to Action
It’s time for business leaders and entrepreneurs to critically assess their organizational structures and cultures.
Are you fostering an environment where employees feel as valued as your customers?
Are the insights and feedback from your frontline staff shaping the way you innovate in customer service?
When I’m consulting or speaking with leading organizations, I ask them to consider the following three specific action steps – and challenge you with the same right now:
Initiate regular, open forums where employees can share their insights and feedback directly with CX leaders.
Develop recognition and reward systems that celebrate not just sales or customer feedback scores but also employee contributions to the customer experience.
Invest in training and development programs that empower employees with the skills and knowledge to excel in their roles and, by extension, enhance customer satisfaction.
The journey to aligning your CX and EX starts with a single step: recognizing the intrinsic link between the two.
By fostering an environment where employees are engaged and empowered, you pave the way for not just satisfied customers but loyal advocates for your business.
As we navigate the complexities of today’s business landscape, let us not forget the simple truth that lies at the core of every successful organization: a happy employee leads to a happy customer.
By bridging the gap between CX and EX, we not only enhance our competitive edge but also build more resilient, dynamic, and human-centric businesses.
In the quest to elevate your customer experience, remember that the key might just lie within the heart of your organization – your employees. Together, we can redefine the standards of customer service excellence, starting from the inside out. I invite you to join me in this crucial conversation and take the first step towards a more integrated, emotionally connected approach to customer experience.
For more insights and strategies on how to transform your customer and employee experiences, delve into my latest book, The Ultimate Customer Experience ®.
AND – let’s start a conversation about how we can together discover steps to elevate your business in ways you never thought possible. Let’s embark on this journey to create distinction—one relationship at a time.
