In my whirlwind of a career as a professional speaker and author, constantly navigating through airports, speaking on stages across the globe, and engaging with diverse audiences, the concept of a prolonged pause seemed unfathomable to me. However, life, as it often does, has presented an unexpected twist. Following my recent rotator cuff surgery, I find myself in a unique situation: a mandatory six-week hiatus from my usual bustling schedule.
For the first time in my decades-long career, my calendar is blocked for recovery, a change that initially felt more confining than liberating. Yet, I’m beginning to reframe this period not as a setback but as an unanticipated opportunity for growth and reflection. This experience is teaching me the profound value of patience and the importance of embracing change, even when it arrives in the most unexpected forms.
The Power of Patience
Patience, often overlooked in the fast-paced world of business and speaking, will become a vital skill during my recovery. It’s not just about waiting for my shoulder to heal; it’s about understanding and respecting the natural process of recovery. Patience is teaching me to slow down, to appreciate the smaller, quieter moments, and to listen more attentively to my own needs and those around me. (And to constantly express the appreciation I have for Tammy taking such good care of me!) This enforced slowdown is a reminder that sometimes, stepping back is just as important as moving forward.
Being stationary has opened a treasure trove of time for study and planning. It’s a chance to delve into the latest research, trends, and insights in the fields of organizational distinction and customer experience. This period is allowing me to absorb new information, think deeply about future projects, and strategize how to integrate these learnings into my future presentations and writings. The stillness of recovery is proving to be a surprisingly fertile ground for intellectual growth and creativity.
Reflection is another unexpected gift of this period. It’s an opportunity to look back on my career to evaluate what has been successful and what can be improved. It’s a time to ponder over the feedback from past audiences and clients and to consider how their insights can shape my future work. Reflection is also deeply personal. It’s a time for me to assess my own journey, to recognize my strengths, and to identify areas for personal and professional development.
Challenges as Opportunities
Perhaps the most significant lesson from this experience is to re-learn that challenges often present opportunities. This temporary pause is not just a break from work; it’s an opening to approach my career with renewed vigor and perspective. It’s a testament to the fact that often, the most profound growth occurs not during the times of constant motion, but in the moments of quiet stillness.
As I begin this path of recovery and discovery, I am reminded of the resilience and adaptability that define not just my career, but every achievement for us all. This experience reaffirms my belief that every challenge, no matter how daunting, holds within it the seeds of opportunity. It’s up to us to nurture these seeds and watch them flourish into something even more remarkable than we could have imagined.
While I eagerly await the day I can return to the stage and engage with my audiences in January, I am grateful for this unexpected journey of patience, study, reflection, and growth. The next six weeks are not just a break from my routine; they are a crucial chapter in my ongoing story of personal and professional evolution.
While I wouldn’t wish a forced time of recovery on anyone, I am left to wonder what could a bit of planned pauses to accomplish these important aspects do for your personal and professional life?
In our fast-paced world, where challenges abound, and gratitude often takes a backseat, embracing the concept of “ThanksLiving” is more vital than ever.
My mentor, Grady Nutt, introduced me to this idea through his chapter “ThanksLiving” in a book of verse. The essence of ThanksLiving is not just about expressing gratitude on special occasions but living a life steeped in thankfulness every day.
Grady’s description of ThanksLiving as “an attitude that finds treasure in the plowed field of routine” resonates deeply — especially in current times.
We’re living in an era marked by significant challenges: political divisions, global pandemics, economic uncertainties, and social unrest. Amidst this turbulence, it’s easy to overlook the beauty of our daily routines, the quiet moments that bring us peace and stability. Yet, it’s in these routine aspects of life where we spend most of our time and where the seeds of gratitude can grow most abundantly.
In the United States, as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, it’s customary to pause and reflect on our blessings. This tradition is more important than ever in our politically divided landscape. However, as Grady often reminded me, true gratitude extends beyond a single day. He encouraged me to slow down and savor life’s journey, emphasizing that the small moments often give the larger ones their meaning. This wisdom holds true in all aspects of life, particularly in times of loss and grief.
The value of a single day or a fleeting moment becomes starkly clear when we lose someone dear to us. Warren Zevon, while battling cancer, poignantly advised David Letterman to “Enjoy every sandwich.” When my wife, Sheri, was dealing with the effects of terminal ovarian cancer, it was the quiet moments on our deck sipping coffee that brought more meaning to us than when we saw the Mona Lisa in the Louvre or strolled the beaches of Maui. This sentiment echoes in the lyrics of the hit song from my great friends, Diamond Rio, in “One More Day,” underscoring the importance of cherishing every moment.
These reflections remind us that every day, every experience, no matter how mundane, has inherent value and is worthy of our appreciation.
As we celebrate Thanksgiving this week, let’s do so with the spirit of ThanksLiving. Let’s make gratitude a daily practice, not just a yearly ritual. In challenging times, adopting a ThanksLiving mindset can be transformative. It encourages us to find joy and meaning in our everyday lives, to appreciate the small things that often go unnoticed, and to maintain a sense of hope and positivity despite the difficulties we may face.
Grady Nutt beautifully encapsulated this sentiment when he wrote that ThanksLiving is about holding “a cup to the water of life…and drinking the mystery of ‘being’ with zest.”
This approach is more than just a philosophy; it’s a way of life that can help us navigate the complexities of our modern world. By embracing ThanksLiving, we open ourselves to a deeper appreciation of life’s simple pleasures, the resilience to face its challenges, and the ability to find joy and meaning in every moment.
Let’s not limit our gratitude to this single day. Let’s strive to live in a state of constant thankfulness, embracing the everyday miracles that surround us. By doing so, we can transform not only our own lives but also positively impact those around us, fostering a more empathetic, understanding, and connected world.
ThanksLiving is not just a concept; it’s a journey towards a more appreciative and distinctive life, one that we can all embark on, today and every day.
Last week, I had the privilege of both attending and addressing the Trusted Leader Summit, sponsored by Trust Edge, the incredible training and content organization led by my friend, renowned trust expert David Horsager.
In my decades of experience as a professional speaker and author specializing in organizational distinction and customer experience, one enduring truth has consistently stood out: trust is the linchpin upon which distinction is built.
As David wisely asserts, “Trust is the most valuable commodity in the world.”
Let’s explore the pivotal role of trust in creating organizational distinction and why it serves as the driving force behind the success of any business. At the core of every iconic brand and successful organization lies a deep and unwavering trust with their customers, employees, and stakeholders.
It’s not enough to simply be different; you must be trusted to be distinct.
Apple, a company I’ve had the privilege to work with, exemplifies this principle. Their unwavering commitment to quality and innovation has built trust over the years. Customers trust that they will receive a reliable and cutting-edge device when they purchase an Apple product. This trust is the cornerstone of Apple’s distinction in the tech industry.
David Horsager underscores its critical importance in the business world. He accurately states, “Trust is not a soft skill; it’s the hard currency of business.” This perspective aligns seamlessly with my beliefs in creating organizational distinction because trust isn’t just a vague concept; it’s measurable and profoundly impacts the bottom line.
Horsager’s research and insights provide a robust foundation for understanding the significance of trust. When customers trust a brand, they are more likely to become loyal advocates, make repeat purchases, and refer others. Trust is a powerful driver of customer loyalty and, consequently, revenue growth.
Trust knows no borders; it’s a universal currency. My experience speaking internationally has exposed me to diverse business environments. In today’s globalized world, understanding and building trust in a cross-cultural context is essential for creating a distinction that resonates worldwide. Trust-building strategies that prove effective in one part of the world may require adaptation elsewhere. This recognition underscores the universal importance of trust, regardless of cultural nuances.
Trust is not static; it evolves over time and requires ongoing efforts to maintain and strengthen. Embracing a mindset of continuous learning and development perfectly aligns with the idea that trust is a dynamic force that demands attention and investment.
Trust is undeniably the linchpin of creating organizational distinction in today’s competitive business landscape. David Horsager’s wisdom underscores the critical role of trust in achieving success.
Trust isn’t merely a desirable attribute; it’s the ultimate currency of distinction.
In the ever-evolving landscape of business, the delicate dance between honoring tradition and embracing innovation is a critical one. Are you so bound in the past that you fail to focus on the future? Or are you so forward-looking, you ignore the values and traditions of your previous work?
This past weekend, Tammy and I attended the Past National Officer reception at the National FFA Convention. FFA (formerly the Future Farmers of America) played the primary role in my training for leadership and in speaking. It was an absolute blast to reconnect with so many great friends. However, what struck me was that the organization had the National FFA Officer team of fifty years ago present the opening ceremonies for the 30,000 students — mostly of high school age — in attendance.
You might think that these kids wouldn’t want to hear six 70-year-old men perform a 7-minute traditional ceremony — but that would not be the case. They cheered as if their favorite team had just scored in the final seconds of the big game. The FFA members were displaying they knew an important lesson we should all learn.
As we reflect on the legacies that have shaped industries, it is imperative to pay respect to past traditions; they are the bedrock upon which we build the future. However, revering tradition does not mean we should be ensnared by it. The art is in leveraging the foundational principles that defined our yesteryears while pivoting with agility to meet the dynamic needs of today’s customer experience.
Consider Apple, a company that respects the innovative spirit of its co-founder, Steve Wozniak (a fellow member of the In Residence faculty at High Point University), yet is not shackled by its past. Apple continues to push the boundaries of technology and design, all while maintaining a user-centric approach that has been the hallmark of its brand since its inception. This is a prime example of a company that transforms consumer expectations into customer experiences, all without losing sight of its core values.
Similarly, Netflix, under the guidance of co-founder Marc Randolph (another HPU colleague), revolutionized the home entertainment industry. It started with a traditional mail-order service and then boldly transitioned to streaming, leaving behind its old business model to adapt to new consumer behaviors. Netflix demonstrates the quintessential transition from respecting the past – note, not remaining in the past – to pioneering future possibilities, thereby crafting an ultimate customer experience.
My client BMW is another brand that honors its tradition of German engineering excellence, while also being a frontrunner in automotive innovation. The company’s commitment to producing the “ultimate driving machine” remains unwavering, yet it simultaneously forges ahead with electrification and autonomous driving technologies. This fusion of heritage with futuristic vision exemplifies the balance of honoring tradition without being trapped by it.
As we navigate the waters of change, we should reflect on our traditions, not as an anchor, but as a compass.
Our history is a source of invaluable insights and principles that can guide our innovation. Yet, to deliver the Ultimate Customer Experience ®, we must be willing to disrupt the status quo, to challenge the traditional ways of doing things if they no longer serve our contemporary customer.
Businesses that excel in innovation understand that tradition is not a destination; it’s a part of the journey. They honor the past by building upon it, not by staying within it. They recognize that to be remarkable in today’s market, to truly stand out, they must deliver an experience that is not merely different, but distinct. This requires an unyielding commitment to the present and future needs of customers, with an innovative mindset that is always looking ahead.
The Ultimate Customer Experience ® is a blend of reverence for the past and bold strides towards the future. As leaders and businesses, let us honor our traditions by allowing them to inform and inspire our innovative efforts.
In doing so, we not only pay homage to our origins but also pave the way for groundbreaking achievements that will, in turn, become the cherished traditions of tomorrow.
In today’s hyper-competitive landscape, it’s an unavoidable reality that everything you desire—be it for your organization, your career, or your personal life—is within the control of someone else.
Whether it’s landing a coveted job, sealing a business deal, or achieving personal goals, someone else holds the key. This makes the pursuit of distinction not merely a lofty ideal but a practical necessity.
As I’ve written extensively, my research and experience clearly show that creating distinction is your golden ticket to ensuring you’re the choice that stands out.
In a study published in the Harvard Business Review, researchers found that companies with a distinctive brand message were twice as likely to attract consumer attention compared to those with generic messaging. This distinctiveness cuts through the noise and positions your company as the go-to source in its industry.
Similarly, a LinkedIn study reveals that recruiters spend an average of just seven seconds reviewing a resume. In those crucial moments, resumes that showcased distinctive skills and experiences were more likely to be.
For organizations, creating distinction often starts with a unique value proposition. According to a study by Bain & Company, companies with a strong value proposition experienced 4-8% higher revenue growth compared to their counterparts. But distinction doesn’t end there. Emphasizing a culture of innovation, providing exceptional customer service, or adopting sustainability practices can also set companies apart.
On the individual front, professionals who continually invest in skill development are more likely to stand out. A survey by PwC indicates that 74% of CEOs are concerned about the availability of key skills among employees. By homing in on these ‘gap’ skills – the “life skills” taught at High Point University that I’ve spoken and written about — one significantly boosts their chances of being indispensable to an organization.
Having a distinctive profile—whether as an organization or as an individual—adds a layer of resilience during tough times. For instance, research shows that during economic downturns, companies with strong brand equity recover nine times faster than their generic competitors.
Moreover, distinction paves the way for sustainable growth. The Edelman Trust Barometer revealed that 81% of consumers must be able to trust a brand to do what is right before making a purchase. (I’ll be a featured speaker at the Trusted Leader Summit in early November. As my friend, David Horsager, CEO of TrustEdge says, “Your biggest expense as an organization is a lack of trust.” For registration information, go to: https://trustedge.com/summit/ )
Distinction is the lever you can pull to swing doors wide open in your favor. By offering something uniquely valuable and continuously striving for excellence, you tilt the odds in your direction.
And in a world where someone else holds the key to what you desire, distinction ensures that you are too good to be overlooked.
Today, I’m keynoting a major conference in the financial services industry being held near San Diego. Over 1500 professionals have gathered to discuss the present and future in the world of payments. Think about it for a second: you tap, insert, or swipe your card to pay for a purchase. In almost the blink of an eye, the information about your card is transmitted to card companies, payment processors, and banks. Businesses receive their payments quickly and you get your purchase secured instantly.
Here’s the problem – the payments industry, like many others, has improved its services and delivered to its customers at such a high level that we all take their work for granted. What do you do when customers assume you will consistently deliver excellence – so they stop paying attention to you?
It’s the curse of competence—when the exceptional becomes expected, and the extraordinary seems ordinary, your distinction in the marketplace can fade into the background.
There is a fine line between being reliable and becoming invisible.
In a world saturated with choices, customers often gravitate towards familiarity, comfort, and reliability. Businesses that consistently deliver on these fronts do themselves proud but risk an insidious outcome: being taken for granted.
This complacency from customers arises when they subconsciously perceive your exceptional service as the standard. The challenge, then, is to reignite the spark of distinction without compromising the quality that earned customer loyalty in the first place.
The first step to combat this challenge is recognizing that distinction in a commodity marketplace is not just about what you do — but how you do it. It’s about infusing the customer experience with elements that are unexpected yet deeply appreciated.
This can range from personalized interactions to innovative service delivery methods. It’s these nuances that can elevate a brand from a mere option to a memorable experience.
To create distinction, it’s crucial to innovate continuously. This doesn’t always mean grand gestures; sometimes, the smallest changes can make the biggest impact. For example, a handwritten note of thanks included with a purchase can create a personal touch that stands out. Innovation can also mean employing technology to provide smoother, more intuitive service interactions that save the customer time and hassle.
Another key to standing out is engagement. In an era where digital interactions are the norm, creating genuine, human connections can be a differentiator. Engage with customers beyond the transaction. Seek their feedback, not just through surveys, but through direct communication. Show them their input is not just collected – it is acted upon.
When customers see their voices shaping your service or product, they feel a partnership rather than a patronage.
An often overlooked aspect of creating distinction is employee empowerment. When employees are vested with the authority to make on-the-spot decisions in favor of customer satisfaction, it can lead to unique, memorable customer experiences. This empowerment also fosters a culture of innovation within the organization, as employees are more likely to suggest improvements when they feel their contributions are valued.
Consistency in excellence is also vital. While pursuing the new and different, a business must ensure that its foundational services remain unshakably excellent. Consistency breeds trust, and trust is the soil in which loyalty grows.
To be taken for granted is to be trusted, but to be distinctive is to be treasured.
Finally, as I have frequently written, storytelling is a powerful tool for distinction. Every brand has a story, and sharing it can create an emotional connection with customers. A story that resonates with your audience can transform your business from a faceless entity into a character in their life story.
Narratives about your brand’s heritage, your team’s commitment, or your community engagement can make your business relatable and memorable.
Being taken for granted is a testament to a business’s success but can also be a warning sign of potential stagnation.
Creating distinction in a commodity marketplace requires a commitment to innovation, engagement, empowerment, consistency, and storytelling.
By implementing these strategies, businesses can ensure that their customers see them as not just a choice — but the choice.
