An old-timer in my community made an interesting observation. “Scott,” he said as we reminisced, “it used to be that there were two restaurants here in Crothersville. Not only did the food taste different at Ted’s Restaurant than at Kern’s Grill, but they just felt different. Each was a reflection of the owner’s personality.”
I nodded in agreement. Ted’s was the spot where we always went after a ball game, took a date for a burger and fries, or simply hung out. Kern’s Grill was where the men of the community gathered for breakfast each morning in the late 1960s and 1970s.
During the lunch break at school, I sprinted there to join either Mom or Dad for a quick meal. (But never both at the same time. We owned the grocery store across the street, and one of my parents always had to stay to run our family business.)
For Ted Zollman, his restaurant was his stage, and we customers were his audience. His smile was as bright as his apron. His flashing blue eyes and natural charisma were as much a part of eating there as the cheeseburgers.
On the other hand, Ted’s local competitor, Alvie Kern, would sit in a booth or gruffly stand like a statue behind the counter, often with arms tightly crossed, seldom engaging in the ongoing conversation. He observed while his wife and daughter cared for the tables and customers. Kern’s Grill was a great place to grab a meal and go. Before you could exit the door, the white sack in which they had placed your order would display small and growing circles of grease. (It was a simpler time before we all knew our HDL and LDL numbers.)
Ted’s Restaurant, however, was where you would order a Cherry Coke, sit down, and relax, either because a friend was with you or because you knew that sooner or later, one was bound to come in and stay a while.
My old-timer friend continued, “Anymore, our fast food is the same as the fast food up the road. The McDonald’s in Seymour is the same as the McDonald’s in Scottsburg. They’re all the same from Portland, Oregon, to Portland, Maine. I guess consistency is a good thing, but haven’t we reached the point where we’ve gone overboard?
“The Walmart where we shop is the same as everywhere else . . . and that’s pretty much the same as Target or Meijer. And they all sell the same items anyway. How many places do you really need to be able to go buy your Tide detergent?”
He was on a roll: “My insurance agent sells the same stuff as yours, no matter what companies they work for. One has some screaming duck to represent it, and another has some caveman or lizard. I’m ‘in good hands’ in one place, another is ‘on my side,’ while another is ‘like a good neighbor.’ But the problem is, I can’t tell one from the next. I know the difference on my street between one of my neighbors and another. So how do I know why one company is a better neighbor or ‘on my side’ more than the other?”
These are great questions.
Can your customers tell the difference between you and your competition?
No matter your professional responsibilities—as CEO of a Fortune 500 company to a small business entrepreneur, someone at the home office sprinting up the corporate ladder, or a salesperson slogging it out in the trenches—this question should keep you tossing and turning at night: how can your customers distinguish you from your competition?
You should be asking this for one simple reason: The primary problem of your business is that you need more customers who will spend more with you and refer you to their colleagues and friends.
The criterion this senior citizen used to make his determination should terrify you. It should frighten all who are trying to grow our businesses and careers.
“It’s just price, I guess!” he deduced. “I sure don’t notice any difference between them with service. And I don’t know enough about insurance, for example, to really understand the differences between their products. These days, every tree in the forest seems to be exactly alike. It’s not just bland,” he said. “It’s all become the same!”
Every business, whether a global corporation or a small-town shop, grapples with this one fundamental problem: the need for more and better customers.
The solution lies in being chosen more frequently by your target audience. But how do you achieve this?
In today’s world, where products and services increasingly look alike, the secret to being chosen more often is creating distinction.
It’s not enough to be great; you must stand out. It is valid for any industry, from financial services to retail technology firms to local diners. When everything looks the same to customers, they make their choices based on price alone, and that’s a race to the bottom that no business can afford to win.
The path to attracting more and better customers begins with creating distinction. Your business deserves to be noticed and valued for what makes it unique. It’s time to step out of the sea of sameness and into a world where your business shines brightly.
Welcome to the journey of creating distinction.
Remember:
No customer is loyal to a generic.
We are chosen for our differences, not our similarities.
The only points of differentiation that matter are the ones that are valuable to customers and prospects.
Just being different is NOT better. But, being distinctive in a compelling way that attracts target customers and prospects is the key to disruptive success.
How can we help you achieve this? We have a myriad of services we provide to great organizations: keynote speeches, training programs, consulting, executive coaching, train-the-trainer packages, seminars/workshops, and more. The main thing is:
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If you’ve followed my work for any period, you know that my research and focus is on creating distinction. It’s usually assumed that I’m targeting organizations and how they can generate a marketplace advantage. However, creating distinction is essential for individual professionals seeking to stand out in an increasingly competitive and crowded marketplace.
Here’s a brief exploration of why — then how — professionals can achieve this based on the Four Cornerstones of Distinction from my books, “Create Distinction” and “ICONIC.”
Why Personal and Professional Distinction is of Critical Importance:
Standing Out in a Crowded Market
Today’s professionals are constantly vying for attention amidst a sea of competitors. Creating distinction helps you differentiate yourself, making it easier for potential clients, employers, and partners to recognize and remember you. This differentiation is not just about being different; it’s about being perceived as uniquely valuable.
Building a Personal Brand
Your personal brand is the unique combination of skills, experiences, and personality that you present to the world. Creating distinction involves honing and consistently presenting your personal brand. A strong personal brand can lead to more significant opportunities, higher credibility, and a loyal following.
Enhancing Professional Opportunities
I’ve often said that when you stand out, you earn more. This is because you are more likely to attract the attention of potential clients, employers, and collaborators. Distinctive professionals often find themselves with more opportunities to participate in high-profile projects.
Driving Personal and Professional Growth
A line that has been used for many years in our National Speakers Association is that “School is never out for the pro.” Creating distinction encourages continuous self-improvement and learning. By striving to be unique and excellent in your field, you push yourself to acquire new skills, knowledge, and experiences that contribute to your overall growth. Let’s face it: the world is changing more rapidly than ever before. Your key to relevance is ongoing growth – both personally and professionally.
Fostering Trust and Loyalty
When you distinguish yourself, you create a unique identity that people can connect with. This connection fosters trust and loyalty, as people are more likely to engage with and support someone they perceive as authentic and exceptional.
The Four Cornerstones of Creating Personal and Professional Distinction
Cornerstone 1: Clarity
Clarity is about understanding and defining what makes you unique. It’s essential to articulate your unique value proposition clearly. A LinkedIn survey found that professionals who can clearly define their unique skills and strengths are 20% more likely to be viewed as leaders in their field. To achieve clarity, reflect on your skills, experiences, and passions. What can you offer that others cannot? Make sure this is communicated consistently and specifically across all your professional interactions.
Cornerstone 2: Creativity
Creativity involves thinking outside the box and bringing fresh, original ideas to the table. In a study by Adobe, 78% of respondents said that creativity is essential to economic growth. Creative professionals are often seen as more adaptable and innovative, making them more attractive to potential employers and clients. Engage in activities that stimulate your creativity, such as brainstorming sessions, attending creative workshops, or collaborating with diverse groups of people. It doesn’t have to be chaotic or undisciplined. Sometimes, it’s just a small tweak that can achieve large results.
Cornerstone 3: Communication
Effective communication is crucial in conveying your unique value to your audience. According to a report by the Harvard Business Review, professionals who communicate effectively are 50% more likely to have stronger personal and professional relationships. Ensure that your communication is clear, concise, and aligned with your personal brand. The key here is the importance of narrative. Stories are remembered when figures and facts are forgotten. Study how to craft and deliver compelling stories.
(For help with this, check out my online course titled “Distinctive Story.” It will teach you how it’s done! https://DistinctiveStory.com)
Cornerstone 4: Customer Experience Focus
Focusing on delivering exceptional customer experiences can set you apart from your peers. Research by PwC shows that 73% of customers say that a good experience is key in influencing their brand loyalties. For individual professionals, this means going above and beyond in every interaction, whether with clients, colleagues, or partners. By consistently providing exceptional service and value, you build a reputation that distinguishes you from others in your field.
In a world where competition is fierce, creating distinction is not a luxury but a necessity for individual professionals. By focusing on the Four Cornerstones of Distinction—Clarity, Creativity, Communication, and Customer Experience Focus—you can effectively stand out and achieve greater success in your professional journey. Distinction not only sets you apart but also paves the way for a more fulfilling and impactful career.
Remember, creating distinction is an ongoing process that requires dedication, creativity, and a relentless focus on delivering value.
What do you do when you find yourself in a downturn?
No one enjoys this situation – and often, the result is that we start marketing obsessively, creating an appearance of desperation for business. Ironically, no prospect or previous client is attracted to a company that seems to be hurting for customers.
Instead, we need to consider a more guided and reassured approach.
Within the professional speaking segment of my career — as opposed to the consulting and education/training aspects of what we do — I’ve noticed that spring often brings a bit of a slowdown in activity. A smaller number of conferences and conventions are held when school is not in session, and families are taking vacations, so we typically get fewer calls in the spring to book speeches for meetings in the summer months. (It’s why the National Speakers Association has always scheduled their annual convention in the summer!)
And 2024 is part of the four-year cycle of both a Presidential election here in the States and the Olympic games occurring in the same year. This often means that keynote slots usually filled by professional speakers will now go to political analysts and successful athletes.
Is there a typical time when you experience a lull in your business?
It’s tempting to view these quieter periods as detrimental. However, it’s crucial to recognize them for what they are: seasonal adjustments, part of a natural ebb and flow in the cycle of business.
Understanding the patterns of our professional landscape can transform how we perceive and react to these lulls. Instead of succumbing to frustration, we can view them as an opportunity to regroup and realign our strategies. Here are four approaches to re-motivating oneself during these slower periods:
1. Strategic Planning and Goal Setting
Use the quieter times for strategic planning and setting new goals. It’s an opportune moment to reflect on your business’s direction, evaluate past performances, and set clear, achievable objectives. This is not merely about continuation but a strategic recalibration to ensure that when the pace picks up again, you are ahead of the curve.
2. Skill Enhancement and Learning
Slow periods are ideal for personal and professional development. Whether it’s attending online workshops, reading the latest in your field, or learning a new skill that can add depth to your offerings, the investment in your growth will pay dividends when the demand picks up.
3. Strengthening Connections
Networking doesn’t only have to occur in peak business times. Reaching out to your network, checking in on colleagues, or even setting up informational interviews can foster relationships that yield future opportunities. This is also a perfect time to collaborate on new ideas with peers. Knowing you aren’t alone in this situation can provide assurance, as long as it does not become a “woe is me!” conversation. My mastermind group meets every summer – and a small group of pals and colleagues meet on Zoom every week. We help keep each other motivated and encouraged.
4. Innovative Experimentation
With more time at your disposal, experiment with new ideas that you wouldn’t during busier periods. Whether it’s a new marketing technique or a fresh topic for your speaking engagements, experimentation can lead to innovation and renewal. It was during a slower period in speaking that I created the concepts that became my bestselling book, “ICONIC.” You never know where your experimentation might lead!
Reflecting and Renewing for Enhanced Relevance
Reflecting on past successes can indeed be a double-edged sword, particularly for seasoned professionals who might worry about remaining relevant in a rapidly evolving market. Here’s how to reflect on your achievements and use them to foster continuous renewal:
Analytical Reflection: Examine your past successes to understand the qualities that distinguished you then and consider how these can be adapted or expanded upon to meet current trends and expectations.
Feedback Loops: Engage with peers, mentors, and trusted clients to get feedback on your current offerings. This can provide insights into how the market perceives your relevance and where there might be opportunities for innovation.
Personal Branding: Update your personal branding to reflect both your legacy and your adaptability to current market demands. This shows that while you respect and acknowledge your past work, you are also fully engaged with your industry’s present and future.
Continuous Learning: Embrace a mindset of continuous learning and curiosity. Being open to new ideas and approaches not only enhances your skill set but also signals to your industry that you are a dynamic and evolving leader.
Embracing Reverse Mentoring for Fresh Perspectives
Another powerful strategy I’ve employed to stay engaged and relevant during quieter times is reverse mentoring.
This involves partnering with younger professionals who not only value my experience but also challenge my thinking with their fresh, generationally unique perspectives. Here are four reasons why reverse mentoring is a critical element of staying motivated and relevant:
1. Cross-Generational Insights
Reverse mentoring allows for an exchange of ideas across generations, fostering a deeper understanding of emerging trends and consumer behaviors that are shaped by younger demographics. This can be particularly valuable for tailoring our strategies to meet the expectations of a broader audience.
2. Challenging Established Norms
Young professionals often bring a different approach to problem-solving and innovation. By engaging with reverse mentors, seasoned professionals can challenge their established norms and potentially outdated methods, ensuring that their strategies remain dynamic and adaptable to new market conditions.
3. Fostering Inclusivity
Reverse mentoring encourages a culture of inclusivity by validating the contributions of younger team members. It demonstrates a commitment to hearing diverse voices within the organization, which can inspire loyalty and a positive work environment.
4. Mutual Benefits
While reverse mentoring is designed to benefit the more experienced professional, it’s a reciprocal relationship. Young professionals gain from exposure to the seasoned insight and strategic thinking of their mentors, enriching their professional growth and understanding of the industry.
Incorporating reverse mentoring into your professional life not only bridges the gap between generations but also injects new zest into your career.
It’s a testament to the idea that learning and motivation are lifelong processes, invigorated continually by new challenges and perspectives.
Every professional will experience cycles of peak activity and slower periods. The key is to use these quieter times as strategic periods of growth and development.
By embracing these lulls as opportunities for strategic planning, learning, and innovation, you can ensure that you remain motivated and ready to meet the challenges and opportunities of your next busy season.
In today’s hyper-competitive business landscape, an organization’s success hinges on its ability to stand out from the crowd.
Therefore, as a leader, it is not enough for you to simply manage your team and ensure smooth operations. To truly excel, you must inspire and empower your team to create distinction in every aspect of their work.
This foundational perspective on leadership is crucial for driving organizational success and separating your company from the competition. I fervently believe—and this is supported by my experience and research—that creating distinction is the key to organizational success, profitability, and creating the kind of culture that inspires the retention of your best customers and employees.
At the core of this leadership approach is the belief that distinction is not just a top-level concern but rather a responsibility that should be embraced by every department and individual within the organization. Leaders must effectively communicate this vision and provide their teams with the tools, resources, and support they need to innovate and deliver exceptional results.
One of my favorite examples is the Fairmont Scottsdale Princess, a renowned resort that has successfully created distinction in a crowded market. Rather than focusing solely on creating a distinctive resort as a whole, the leadership team with CEO Jack Miller broke down the goal into meaningful elements, such as crafting a distinctive check-in experience and providing distinctive housekeeping services. By empowering each department to contribute to the overall goal of distinction and the Ultimate Customer Experience ®, the resort was able to create a truly memorable and differentiated experience for its guests that has made it the most profitable of all Fairmont properties.
As a leader, it is essential for you to foster a culture of continuous learning and improvement within your organization. Encourage your team members to seek out new ideas, best practices, and innovations that can help set your company apart. Provide opportunities for professional development, cross-functional collaboration, and creative problem-solving. By investing in your team’s growth and development, you not only enhance their individual capabilities but also strengthen the organization’s ability to create distinction.
Moreover, leaders must lead by example and demonstrate a commitment to distinction in their own work. This means consistently pushing boundaries, challenging the status quo, and seeking out new and better ways of doing things. By embodying the values of innovation, excellence, and differentiation, leaders can inspire their teams to follow suit and contribute to the organization’s success.
The pursuit of distinction should be a top priority for any leader looking to drive organizational success in today’s competitive landscape.
By inspiring and empowering your team to create distinction in every aspect of their work, you can set your organization apart from the competition and achieve long-term success.
Remember, distinction is not just a goal but a mindset that should be embraced by every member of your organization, from the front lines to the executive suite. You can lead your team to create distinction!
In my whirlwind of a career as a professional speaker and author, constantly navigating through airports, speaking on stages across the globe, and engaging with diverse audiences, the concept of a prolonged pause seemed unfathomable to me. However, life, as it often does, has presented an unexpected twist. Following my recent rotator cuff surgery, I find myself in a unique situation: a mandatory six-week hiatus from my usual bustling schedule.
For the first time in my decades-long career, my calendar is blocked for recovery, a change that initially felt more confining than liberating. Yet, I’m beginning to reframe this period not as a setback but as an unanticipated opportunity for growth and reflection. This experience is teaching me the profound value of patience and the importance of embracing change, even when it arrives in the most unexpected forms.
The Power of Patience
Patience, often overlooked in the fast-paced world of business and speaking, will become a vital skill during my recovery. It’s not just about waiting for my shoulder to heal; it’s about understanding and respecting the natural process of recovery. Patience is teaching me to slow down, to appreciate the smaller, quieter moments, and to listen more attentively to my own needs and those around me. (And to constantly express the appreciation I have for Tammy taking such good care of me!) This enforced slowdown is a reminder that sometimes, stepping back is just as important as moving forward.
Being stationary has opened a treasure trove of time for study and planning. It’s a chance to delve into the latest research, trends, and insights in the fields of organizational distinction and customer experience. This period is allowing me to absorb new information, think deeply about future projects, and strategize how to integrate these learnings into my future presentations and writings. The stillness of recovery is proving to be a surprisingly fertile ground for intellectual growth and creativity.
Reflection is another unexpected gift of this period. It’s an opportunity to look back on my career to evaluate what has been successful and what can be improved. It’s a time to ponder over the feedback from past audiences and clients and to consider how their insights can shape my future work. Reflection is also deeply personal. It’s a time for me to assess my own journey, to recognize my strengths, and to identify areas for personal and professional development.
Challenges as Opportunities
Perhaps the most significant lesson from this experience is to re-learn that challenges often present opportunities. This temporary pause is not just a break from work; it’s an opening to approach my career with renewed vigor and perspective. It’s a testament to the fact that often, the most profound growth occurs not during the times of constant motion, but in the moments of quiet stillness.
As I begin this path of recovery and discovery, I am reminded of the resilience and adaptability that define not just my career, but every achievement for us all. This experience reaffirms my belief that every challenge, no matter how daunting, holds within it the seeds of opportunity. It’s up to us to nurture these seeds and watch them flourish into something even more remarkable than we could have imagined.
While I eagerly await the day I can return to the stage and engage with my audiences in January, I am grateful for this unexpected journey of patience, study, reflection, and growth. The next six weeks are not just a break from my routine; they are a crucial chapter in my ongoing story of personal and professional evolution.
While I wouldn’t wish a forced time of recovery on anyone, I am left to wonder what could a bit of planned pauses to accomplish these important aspects do for your personal and professional life?
In our fast-paced world, where challenges abound, and gratitude often takes a backseat, embracing the concept of “ThanksLiving” is more vital than ever.
My mentor, Grady Nutt, introduced me to this idea through his chapter “ThanksLiving” in a book of verse. The essence of ThanksLiving is not just about expressing gratitude on special occasions but living a life steeped in thankfulness every day.
Grady’s description of ThanksLiving as “an attitude that finds treasure in the plowed field of routine” resonates deeply — especially in current times.
We’re living in an era marked by significant challenges: political divisions, global pandemics, economic uncertainties, and social unrest. Amidst this turbulence, it’s easy to overlook the beauty of our daily routines, the quiet moments that bring us peace and stability. Yet, it’s in these routine aspects of life where we spend most of our time and where the seeds of gratitude can grow most abundantly.
In the United States, as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, it’s customary to pause and reflect on our blessings. This tradition is more important than ever in our politically divided landscape. However, as Grady often reminded me, true gratitude extends beyond a single day. He encouraged me to slow down and savor life’s journey, emphasizing that the small moments often give the larger ones their meaning. This wisdom holds true in all aspects of life, particularly in times of loss and grief.
The value of a single day or a fleeting moment becomes starkly clear when we lose someone dear to us. Warren Zevon, while battling cancer, poignantly advised David Letterman to “Enjoy every sandwich.” When my wife, Sheri, was dealing with the effects of terminal ovarian cancer, it was the quiet moments on our deck sipping coffee that brought more meaning to us than when we saw the Mona Lisa in the Louvre or strolled the beaches of Maui. This sentiment echoes in the lyrics of the hit song from my great friends, Diamond Rio, in “One More Day,” underscoring the importance of cherishing every moment.
These reflections remind us that every day, every experience, no matter how mundane, has inherent value and is worthy of our appreciation.
As we celebrate Thanksgiving this week, let’s do so with the spirit of ThanksLiving. Let’s make gratitude a daily practice, not just a yearly ritual. In challenging times, adopting a ThanksLiving mindset can be transformative. It encourages us to find joy and meaning in our everyday lives, to appreciate the small things that often go unnoticed, and to maintain a sense of hope and positivity despite the difficulties we may face.
Grady Nutt beautifully encapsulated this sentiment when he wrote that ThanksLiving is about holding “a cup to the water of life…and drinking the mystery of ‘being’ with zest.”
This approach is more than just a philosophy; it’s a way of life that can help us navigate the complexities of our modern world. By embracing ThanksLiving, we open ourselves to a deeper appreciation of life’s simple pleasures, the resilience to face its challenges, and the ability to find joy and meaning in every moment.
Let’s not limit our gratitude to this single day. Let’s strive to live in a state of constant thankfulness, embracing the everyday miracles that surround us. By doing so, we can transform not only our own lives but also positively impact those around us, fostering a more empathetic, understanding, and connected world.
ThanksLiving is not just a concept; it’s a journey towards a more appreciative and distinctive life, one that we can all embark on, today and every day.
