In my whirlwind of a career as a professional speaker and author, constantly navigating through airports, speaking on stages across the globe, and engaging with diverse audiences, the concept of a prolonged pause seemed unfathomable to me. However, life, as it often does, has presented an unexpected twist. Following my recent rotator cuff surgery, I find myself in a unique situation: a mandatory six-week hiatus from my usual bustling schedule.
For the first time in my decades-long career, my calendar is blocked for recovery, a change that initially felt more confining than liberating. Yet, I’m beginning to reframe this period not as a setback but as an unanticipated opportunity for growth and reflection. This experience is teaching me the profound value of patience and the importance of embracing change, even when it arrives in the most unexpected forms.
The Power of Patience
Patience, often overlooked in the fast-paced world of business and speaking, will become a vital skill during my recovery. It’s not just about waiting for my shoulder to heal; it’s about understanding and respecting the natural process of recovery. Patience is teaching me to slow down, to appreciate the smaller, quieter moments, and to listen more attentively to my own needs and those around me. (And to constantly express the appreciation I have for Tammy taking such good care of me!) This enforced slowdown is a reminder that sometimes, stepping back is just as important as moving forward.
Being stationary has opened a treasure trove of time for study and planning. It’s a chance to delve into the latest research, trends, and insights in the fields of organizational distinction and customer experience. This period is allowing me to absorb new information, think deeply about future projects, and strategize how to integrate these learnings into my future presentations and writings. The stillness of recovery is proving to be a surprisingly fertile ground for intellectual growth and creativity.
Reflection is another unexpected gift of this period. It’s an opportunity to look back on my career to evaluate what has been successful and what can be improved. It’s a time to ponder over the feedback from past audiences and clients and to consider how their insights can shape my future work. Reflection is also deeply personal. It’s a time for me to assess my own journey, to recognize my strengths, and to identify areas for personal and professional development.
Challenges as Opportunities
Perhaps the most significant lesson from this experience is to re-learn that challenges often present opportunities. This temporary pause is not just a break from work; it’s an opening to approach my career with renewed vigor and perspective. It’s a testament to the fact that often, the most profound growth occurs not during the times of constant motion, but in the moments of quiet stillness.
As I begin this path of recovery and discovery, I am reminded of the resilience and adaptability that define not just my career, but every achievement for us all. This experience reaffirms my belief that every challenge, no matter how daunting, holds within it the seeds of opportunity. It’s up to us to nurture these seeds and watch them flourish into something even more remarkable than we could have imagined.
While I eagerly await the day I can return to the stage and engage with my audiences in January, I am grateful for this unexpected journey of patience, study, reflection, and growth. The next six weeks are not just a break from my routine; they are a crucial chapter in my ongoing story of personal and professional evolution.
While I wouldn’t wish a forced time of recovery on anyone, I am left to wonder what could a bit of planned pauses to accomplish these important aspects do for your personal and professional life?
In our fast-paced world, where challenges abound, and gratitude often takes a backseat, embracing the concept of “ThanksLiving” is more vital than ever.
My mentor, Grady Nutt, introduced me to this idea through his chapter “ThanksLiving” in a book of verse. The essence of ThanksLiving is not just about expressing gratitude on special occasions but living a life steeped in thankfulness every day.
Grady’s description of ThanksLiving as “an attitude that finds treasure in the plowed field of routine” resonates deeply — especially in current times.
We’re living in an era marked by significant challenges: political divisions, global pandemics, economic uncertainties, and social unrest. Amidst this turbulence, it’s easy to overlook the beauty of our daily routines, the quiet moments that bring us peace and stability. Yet, it’s in these routine aspects of life where we spend most of our time and where the seeds of gratitude can grow most abundantly.
In the United States, as we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, it’s customary to pause and reflect on our blessings. This tradition is more important than ever in our politically divided landscape. However, as Grady often reminded me, true gratitude extends beyond a single day. He encouraged me to slow down and savor life’s journey, emphasizing that the small moments often give the larger ones their meaning. This wisdom holds true in all aspects of life, particularly in times of loss and grief.
The value of a single day or a fleeting moment becomes starkly clear when we lose someone dear to us. Warren Zevon, while battling cancer, poignantly advised David Letterman to “Enjoy every sandwich.” When my wife, Sheri, was dealing with the effects of terminal ovarian cancer, it was the quiet moments on our deck sipping coffee that brought more meaning to us than when we saw the Mona Lisa in the Louvre or strolled the beaches of Maui. This sentiment echoes in the lyrics of the hit song from my great friends, Diamond Rio, in “One More Day,” underscoring the importance of cherishing every moment.
These reflections remind us that every day, every experience, no matter how mundane, has inherent value and is worthy of our appreciation.
As we celebrate Thanksgiving this week, let’s do so with the spirit of ThanksLiving. Let’s make gratitude a daily practice, not just a yearly ritual. In challenging times, adopting a ThanksLiving mindset can be transformative. It encourages us to find joy and meaning in our everyday lives, to appreciate the small things that often go unnoticed, and to maintain a sense of hope and positivity despite the difficulties we may face.
Grady Nutt beautifully encapsulated this sentiment when he wrote that ThanksLiving is about holding “a cup to the water of life…and drinking the mystery of ‘being’ with zest.”
This approach is more than just a philosophy; it’s a way of life that can help us navigate the complexities of our modern world. By embracing ThanksLiving, we open ourselves to a deeper appreciation of life’s simple pleasures, the resilience to face its challenges, and the ability to find joy and meaning in every moment.
Let’s not limit our gratitude to this single day. Let’s strive to live in a state of constant thankfulness, embracing the everyday miracles that surround us. By doing so, we can transform not only our own lives but also positively impact those around us, fostering a more empathetic, understanding, and connected world.
ThanksLiving is not just a concept; it’s a journey towards a more appreciative and distinctive life, one that we can all embark on, today and every day.
Last week, I had the privilege of both attending and addressing the Trusted Leader Summit, sponsored by Trust Edge, the incredible training and content organization led by my friend, renowned trust expert David Horsager.
In my decades of experience as a professional speaker and author specializing in organizational distinction and customer experience, one enduring truth has consistently stood out: trust is the linchpin upon which distinction is built.
As David wisely asserts, “Trust is the most valuable commodity in the world.”
Let’s explore the pivotal role of trust in creating organizational distinction and why it serves as the driving force behind the success of any business. At the core of every iconic brand and successful organization lies a deep and unwavering trust with their customers, employees, and stakeholders.
It’s not enough to simply be different; you must be trusted to be distinct.
Apple, a company I’ve had the privilege to work with, exemplifies this principle. Their unwavering commitment to quality and innovation has built trust over the years. Customers trust that they will receive a reliable and cutting-edge device when they purchase an Apple product. This trust is the cornerstone of Apple’s distinction in the tech industry.
David Horsager underscores its critical importance in the business world. He accurately states, “Trust is not a soft skill; it’s the hard currency of business.” This perspective aligns seamlessly with my beliefs in creating organizational distinction because trust isn’t just a vague concept; it’s measurable and profoundly impacts the bottom line.
Horsager’s research and insights provide a robust foundation for understanding the significance of trust. When customers trust a brand, they are more likely to become loyal advocates, make repeat purchases, and refer others. Trust is a powerful driver of customer loyalty and, consequently, revenue growth.
Trust knows no borders; it’s a universal currency. My experience speaking internationally has exposed me to diverse business environments. In today’s globalized world, understanding and building trust in a cross-cultural context is essential for creating a distinction that resonates worldwide. Trust-building strategies that prove effective in one part of the world may require adaptation elsewhere. This recognition underscores the universal importance of trust, regardless of cultural nuances.
Trust is not static; it evolves over time and requires ongoing efforts to maintain and strengthen. Embracing a mindset of continuous learning and development perfectly aligns with the idea that trust is a dynamic force that demands attention and investment.
Trust is undeniably the linchpin of creating organizational distinction in today’s competitive business landscape. David Horsager’s wisdom underscores the critical role of trust in achieving success.
Trust isn’t merely a desirable attribute; it’s the ultimate currency of distinction.
Today, I’m keynoting a major conference in the financial services industry being held near San Diego. Over 1500 professionals have gathered to discuss the present and future in the world of payments. Think about it for a second: you tap, insert, or swipe your card to pay for a purchase. In almost the blink of an eye, the information about your card is transmitted to card companies, payment processors, and banks. Businesses receive their payments quickly and you get your purchase secured instantly.
Here’s the problem – the payments industry, like many others, has improved its services and delivered to its customers at such a high level that we all take their work for granted. What do you do when customers assume you will consistently deliver excellence – so they stop paying attention to you?
It’s the curse of competence—when the exceptional becomes expected, and the extraordinary seems ordinary, your distinction in the marketplace can fade into the background.
There is a fine line between being reliable and becoming invisible.
In a world saturated with choices, customers often gravitate towards familiarity, comfort, and reliability. Businesses that consistently deliver on these fronts do themselves proud but risk an insidious outcome: being taken for granted.
This complacency from customers arises when they subconsciously perceive your exceptional service as the standard. The challenge, then, is to reignite the spark of distinction without compromising the quality that earned customer loyalty in the first place.
The first step to combat this challenge is recognizing that distinction in a commodity marketplace is not just about what you do — but how you do it. It’s about infusing the customer experience with elements that are unexpected yet deeply appreciated.
This can range from personalized interactions to innovative service delivery methods. It’s these nuances that can elevate a brand from a mere option to a memorable experience.
To create distinction, it’s crucial to innovate continuously. This doesn’t always mean grand gestures; sometimes, the smallest changes can make the biggest impact. For example, a handwritten note of thanks included with a purchase can create a personal touch that stands out. Innovation can also mean employing technology to provide smoother, more intuitive service interactions that save the customer time and hassle.
Another key to standing out is engagement. In an era where digital interactions are the norm, creating genuine, human connections can be a differentiator. Engage with customers beyond the transaction. Seek their feedback, not just through surveys, but through direct communication. Show them their input is not just collected – it is acted upon.
When customers see their voices shaping your service or product, they feel a partnership rather than a patronage.
An often overlooked aspect of creating distinction is employee empowerment. When employees are vested with the authority to make on-the-spot decisions in favor of customer satisfaction, it can lead to unique, memorable customer experiences. This empowerment also fosters a culture of innovation within the organization, as employees are more likely to suggest improvements when they feel their contributions are valued.
Consistency in excellence is also vital. While pursuing the new and different, a business must ensure that its foundational services remain unshakably excellent. Consistency breeds trust, and trust is the soil in which loyalty grows.
To be taken for granted is to be trusted, but to be distinctive is to be treasured.
Finally, as I have frequently written, storytelling is a powerful tool for distinction. Every brand has a story, and sharing it can create an emotional connection with customers. A story that resonates with your audience can transform your business from a faceless entity into a character in their life story.
Narratives about your brand’s heritage, your team’s commitment, or your community engagement can make your business relatable and memorable.
Being taken for granted is a testament to a business’s success but can also be a warning sign of potential stagnation.
Creating distinction in a commodity marketplace requires a commitment to innovation, engagement, empowerment, consistency, and storytelling.
By implementing these strategies, businesses can ensure that their customers see them as not just a choice — but the choice.
Earlier this week, a great friend of mine was subjected to negative comments on social media. The reason some cited was that she was a “phony” — because she always seemed so upbeat. As I posted, it struck me that we never say a negative person is a phony. That critique seems reserved for those who choose to express an optimistic attitude.
However, my experience and research has taught me that in the quest for distinction within any organization, one vital component resonates at the core of success: a positive attitude. A company with a culture infused with optimism doesn’t just thrive, it stands out. Here are six reasons why this essential aspect is pivotal in creating a distinctive business culture, no matter the size of your company.
1. Unleashing Potential
A positive attitude unshackles potential. It energizes, motivates, and inspires employees to transcend the ordinary. It’s about seeing challenges not as roadblocks, but as gateways to creativity and innovation. A culture of positivity instills a sense of purpose, propelling an organization towards distinction.
2. Strengthening the Customer Experience
As someone who has extensively studied, written, and spoken about organizational distinction and customer experience, I firmly believe that positivity is integral to delivering the Ultimate Customer Experience®. When positivity permeates a company, it’s felt by every customer. It translates to engaged employees, superior service, and ultimately, customer loyalty. The connection between a positive attitude and customer experience isn’t just theoretical – it’s proven, tangible, and transformative.
3. Cultivating Collaboration
Positive attitudes foster an environment of collaboration and inclusiveness. Diversity and unity thrive in an optimistic setting. Team members feel valued and respected, leading to stronger collaboration. This creates a synergy where the collective wisdom transcends individual capabilities.
4. Building Resilience
In the ever-changing global business landscape, resilience is a prized attribute. My friend, speaker, author, and someone who has conquered physical disabilities, Roger Crawford always states that a positive attitude equips an organization with the flexibility to adapt and the strength to endure. It breeds a culture where failure is seen not as a dead end but as a lesson learned, a stepping stone towards success and distinction.
5. Enhancing Profitability
Numerous studies from respected sources affirm that companies fostering a positive culture enjoy higher levels of productivity and profitability. Gallup, for instance, found that companies with engaged employees outperform others by 202%. A positive attitude is not just a moral booster; it’s a strategic business tool.
6. Becoming Iconic
As I’ve highlighted in my book, “ICONIC,” becoming an iconic organization requires commitment, effort, and a clear vision. A positive attitude is the fuel that powers this journey. It’s the beacon that guides a company from mediocrity to greatness.
The Positive Path to Distinction
Creating distinction is not about mere survival; it’s about standing out and thriving. It’s about embracing a positive attitude that sets the tone for excellence in every facet of the organization.
A positive attitude is not a by-product of success; it’s the foundational element. It’s what separates the good from the great, the ordinary from the extraordinary.
A positive attitude is not just the cornerstone of a distinctive company culture. It’s the heartbeat, the lifeblood, and the soul.
It’s not about being phony and it’s more than a business strategy; a commitment to a positive approach is a philosophy that resonates with human potential and aspirations. By nurturing a culture of positivity, we pave the way for distinction, innovation, and growth.
Ask yourself who you would rather deal with as a customer or a colleague at work: someone who acts as if they have a positive attitude about your business…or a sincere jerk who doesn’t care about how you’re treated?
Several years ago, a Canadian musician’s $3500 Taylor guitar was severely damaged by baggage handlers from United Airlines. When Dave Carroll couldn’t get the airline to take responsibility for what they had broken, he made a music video that was viewed by millions on YouTube, creating a public relations nightmare for United.
Wikipedia reports, “It was widely reported that within four weeks of the video being posted online, United Airlines’ stock price fell 10%, costing stockholders about $180 million in value.” (That would’ve bought over 51,000 replacement guitars!)
I bring this up because a couple that lives near us in Las Vegas had a terrifying incident at a local Starbucks. Lauren Weyand writes on Nextdoor:
“5 or 6 teenage kids came in shirtless, shoeless, and screaming profanities at each other…using incredibly vulgar language and pulling all of the food products out of the fridge section with no intention to buy anything. They asked the cashier for large water, one for each of them. Each of them was given water. They were heading out of the store.
My husband saw them line up — waters in hand — and said, ‘Ready, go!’ Before I knew it, I was hit in the head with a water cup. Two large cups of water doused our computers and us. We were startled and overwhelmed by what had happened. The whole store acknowledged the incident and asked us if we were okay. The Starbucks staff said nothing and started mopping up the mess. Nobody contacted the police or managers to ask for help with the situation that had just occurred.”
Weyand continues that she and her husband later returned to Starbucks to speak to the manager about what had happened. They were told they could not have video of the incident, and no police report had been filed because an employee got tired of waiting for the police to answer the phone, so they hung up and didn’t try again. The manager then led them to the door and told them more information would be forthcoming.
Look, we could turn this issue into a political or generational topic and press hot buttons all day long. Let’s not – that isn’t what this commentary is about.
At the current point, the Weyands must buy two new laptop computers, as neither of the ones they were using at Starbucks is now working because of the water damage. The Starbucks helpline – using the term “help” a bit loosely here – told them the case was closed and had been resolved, even though nothing was truly handled. From Weyand’s perspective, Starbucks has chosen the profane, shirtless troublemakers who threw water in their store over two loyal customers.
When I contacted Lauren Weyand, she confirmed that Starbucks remains silent – which she understandably perceives as a lack of concern and commitment for their customers.
In the frequently negative world of social media, some are questioning if Starbucks has any liability in this matter. I’m not a lawyer, so I don’t know the correct answer – but the important issue is that we should care less about liability and be more concerned about the customer experience.
What did United do in the wake of the PR disaster over the music video, “United Breaks Guitars”? As I relate in my new book, “The Ultimate Customer Experience,®” they licensed the video from Carroll to use in their training curriculum. They’ve hired him to speak at meetings for them to emphasize the importance of the customer experience.
And United’s share price has gone from $3.25 when Carroll’s video was the hottest thing on YouTube to closing today at $53.34! That’s what happens when you listen to your customers, learn from your mistakes, set things straight with those you have wronged, and focus on the Ultimate Customer Experience!
Starbucks may save a couple of grand by staying silent and not offering the Weyands replacement laptops, hoping they’ll just give in and give up. But just like United discovered how they could be “penny wise and pound foolish,” we’ve seen from experience that ANY business, no matter their size, can get on the wrong side of the public and lose millions when basic empathy and concern for the customer is ignored.
Every customer has a right to presume they aren’t going to have water thrown at them and have their computers ruined because they chose to do business with you.
So, what should Starbucks do? I’d suggest the minimum is that they apologize, replace the laptops, and provide the Weyands with a couple of gift cards with handsome amounts attached.
(They might also increase security so that shirtless, shoeless individuals can’t enter their stores in violation of health ordinances…and provide the store’s video to the police so they can press charges.)
Starbucks should learn from its mistake. Because they didn’t get it right, they should take advantage of the opportunity to make it right. If they fail, they may discover more people than a nice couple here in Vegas who are beginning to question if it’s worth a trip to get coffee from them, as opposed to their competition, if the experience is going to be so inferior – even problematic.
(Full disclosure: I’ve had the privilege of working with United and consider their Chief Customer Officer, Linda Jojo, a friend.)
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